11.04.2008

Beta was Negative.

That is all I have to say for now. I have a lot I want to say, but for now, just letting things sink in.

8 comments:

Erin said...

Oh God, Tiffany. When is the beta? I searched your older posts, but can't find your beta date?????

I hope you get this msg soon... I'll check back in an hour or so.

Erin said...

I'm so, so, so sorry.

Nothing can be done to take away the pain you feel. I know how hopeful you were, and I wish I could take away the pain. You worked so hard, did everything right, and yet we still lose in the end. Please know that you did nothing wrong. This just sucks. Period.

Cry. Scream. Drink. Do what you must. I can't fix this pain, but I can promise you that it will minimize over time. Somehow we move forward.

I'll be thinking of you guys in the coming days. Take extra good care of yourself, friend.

HUGE HUGS!
Erin

Ryan and Stuart said...

Tiffany -

I am so, so very sorry. I know there just aren't any words that will help right now. I wish I could say something to make this time easier for you.

Erin is right - you did EVERYTHING right. It seemed like such a good cycle. I hope the doctor has some information for you that you'll find helpful and encouraging.

Hugs to you and DH.

Polly Gamwich said...

How is that possible?

Tiffany, I am so so sorry for your loss. My heart just breaks for you.

I don't get it ...

twondra said...

Oh, sweetie, I am soooooo sorry. I was really hoping and praying for you. It's just not fair. It's hard to accept that "it's not the right time"....especially when you feel so much grief and have been through so much to get to the point you are now. I don't understand why life has to be so unfair. I wish I was there to give you the biggest hug. Know that I'm only a thought away. (((HUGS)))

Hoping for our own Peanut said...

i know the words dont mean much after being heard over and over..but..im sorry. :(

ill be thinking of you.

<3Erin

Suzanne said...

I am so sorry. I know that nothing I say will make you feel better. Just know that we're here for you.

Christi said...

words can't express how sorry I am, I know how painful it is to experience an IVF failure. Please take your time to heal...